5 Important Questions to Ask Your Urologist

By: Mark Hockenberry, M.D.

If you are preparing for a urology appointment in the Greater Philadelphia area, knowing what to ask can make your visit more productive. Whether you are seen at MidLantic Urology or Keystone Urology Specialists, the goal is the same: clear answers, accurate diagnosis, and personalized care.

Urologists diagnose and treat a wide range of conditions affecting the urinary tract and male and female reproductive health, including prostate conditions, urinary tract infections (UTIs), kidney stones, overactive bladder (OAB), and sexual health concerns.

Because symptoms can vary widely—and sometimes be subtle—asking the right questions helps guide faster evaluation and better outcomes. Below are five essential questions to bring to your urology appointment.

Questions Men Should Ask a Urologist

  1. How often is urination considered too frequent? Normal urination patterns vary, but urinating more than 8 times per day, waking more than twice at night to urinate, or experiencing urgency that disrupts daily life may indicate a concern.

A common cause in men is benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH), or enlarged prostate. As the prostate grows with age, it can restrict urine flow and lead to symptoms such as weak stream, urgency, or incomplete emptying.

  1. What can I do to support prostate health? While not all prostate conditions are preventable, lifestyle choices can support long-term urologic health. Regular exercise, a balanced diet, maintaining a healthy weight, avoiding tobacco, and keeping up with routine screenings can help reduce risk factors associated with BPH, prostate cancer, and other conditions.

Men over age 50, or earlier for those at higher risk, should discuss prostate screening with their urologist.

  1. How is testosterone tested and what is considered low? Testosterone is measured through a blood test, typically drawn in the morning when levels are most accurate. In some cases, a second confirmatory test may be ordered.

Because symptoms and lab values both matter, interpretation should always be done with a provider.

  1. How can I reduce my risk of kidney stones? Kidney stones form when minerals in the urine crystallize. One of the most effective prevention strategies is hydration. Drinking enough water helps dilute urine and reduce stone formation. Additional prevention strategies may include reducing sodium intake, limiting excessive red meat, and maintaining balanced calcium consumption through diet.
  2. Should I perform testicular self-exams? Yes. Monthly testicular self-exams are recommended, especially for men under age 35, when testicular cancer is most common.

A self-exam involves gently feeling each testicle for lumps, swelling, or changes in size or texture. Any abnormalities should be evaluated promptly by a urologist.

Questions Women Should Ask a Urologist

  1. How can I help prevent urinary tract infections (UTIs)? UTIs are common in women, and prevention often involves simple habits. Helpful strategies include staying well hydrated, urinating after sexual activity, wiping front to back, and avoiding prolonged baths when possible. Some women may also benefit from probiotics or additional preventive therapies if infections are recurrent.
  2. How many times a day should I urinate? Most adults urinate about 6 to 7 times per day, depending on fluid intake, diet, and medications. Frequent urination—especially at night—may be a sign of overactive bladder (OAB), UTI, pelvic floor dysfunction, or bladder irritation.

If symptoms persist, a urology evaluation can help determine the cause.

  1. What does urine color mean? Urine color is often a reflection of hydration status. Pale yellow is typically normal. Dark yellow may indicate dehydration, while pink, red, or brown urine may require evaluation to rule out blood in the urine (hematuria) or other conditions.
  2. How does menopause affect bladder health? Menopause causes a decline in estrogen, which can affect the bladder and surrounding pelvic tissues. This may lead to urinary urgency, leakage, increased frequency, or vaginal dryness. These changes are common and treatable with several available options.
  3. Are Kegel exercises beneficial? Yes. Pelvic floor (Kegel) exercises strengthen the muscles that support the bladder and reproductive organs. They may help improve bladder control, reduce leakage, and support pelvic health—especially after childbirth or during menopause. A urologist can help ensure proper technique.

The Most Important Question to Ask

No matter your symptoms or reason for visiting, one of the most important questions is: What should I do next? A clear follow-up plan, along with preventive guidance, helps support long-term urinary and sexual health.

If you experience changes in urination, pelvic discomfort, sexual health concerns, or pain in the lower abdomen or back, schedule an evaluation with a urology provider.